I get that it can seem like men want everything – or that different men want enough different things that it FEELS like men want everything.
But there’s good news for you!
There’s no woman who truly ‘has it all’ and vice versa – and you don’t have to figure out how to be everything he wants to become his soul mate.
There’s a much easier way – but more on that later.
The truth is – if you want to find the man of your dreams, you have to know what kind of man you’re looking for first. What qualities make him unique. What qualities you’re looking to have in your life and by your side forever.
And that’s what real men are doing too. They’re figuring out what qualities they want in a woman – qualities that will support them through good and bad times and make a true and lasting difference in their lives.
So now the question becomes: What qualities are the “quality” men looking for?
That’s a MUCH simpler question. Don’t you agree?
Here’s a list of the top 8 qualities that men are looking for in a woman they want to be with forever…
Men are looking to be supported by the women by their sides, just the same as women want their partners to be supportive of them. It might sound old fashioned, but it’s still a strong idea that’s VERY relevant in this day and age.
Men want women who support their dreams. Who support their choices. Who support their work, and their passions, and goals. Men want women who care, who are in their corner all the way, and who want to help improve their lives together.
Men are looking for a woman they can trust. This is something that goes both ways, and is just as important to both parties.
He needs to know that you’ll follow through on your promises, that you won’t break your word. There are too many flaky people out there today – and a man looking for a life partner doesn’t want any part of them. A true soul mate knows how valuable real trust is.
3. Compatibility Between the Sheets
Every man wants a woman who he’s sexually compatible with. A woman who can surprise him in the bedroom, can sometimes take the lead in the bedroom, and most importantly – makes him feel like a man.
Successful men are most often turned off by women who carry sexual shame – and when it comes to sex, men are looking for women who are generous and up for trying new things – as long as they’re not totally offensive or dangerous.
Who doesn’t want to laugh and have fun with their mate?
Men are looking for women who can be playful with them. Without playfulness, neither men nor women can relax and loosen up – which is hard to come by out in public or at work. When a man is with a woman who can delight him with her silliness or spontaneity, that’s a woman he wants to keep.
5. Ability to Forgive
Men are looking for a woman who can forgive… because a man knows that he’s GOING to mess up – and he wants to be forgiven.
Any long-term relationship needs the ability of both partners to forgive and understand each other, even when they mess up. Everyone makes mistakes and no one is perfect – so a relationship that doesn’t include forgiveness can never last.
Note that this doesn’t mean that you should forgive the unforgivable. If your partner hurts or harms you or your relationship in a way that you feel is a deal breaker, it is time to walk away.
6. Having Self-Confidence
Confidence is sexy and attractive to both genders. Men desire confident women. Innumerable relationships have been destroyed because of self-doubt, insecurity, and lack of confidence.
When a woman shows a man that she has no confidence in herself – what she’s really telling him is that she’s not going to carry herself in this world – and that he’s going to have to carry her.
And that’s the last thing men want. Men feel burdened by expectations all around them in the world – and they’re NOT looking to add another burden to their lives at home. If he sees you as a woman who can carry him sometimes – just like he carries you sometimes – he will see you as his soul mate.
7. Intelligence is Sexy
Men are attracted to women of intelligence. After all – if you’re going to spend every day together for the rest of your lives, you’d better be able to talk to each other!
Men truly value women who can help them navigate through life together and make the right decisions in difficult spots. No longer are men looking for women who pretend to be incompetent so that he can “save” them… men are looking for a woman who can hold her own and help brighten each other’s lives for years to come.
8. Capacity to Love Deeply
At the end of the day, men are really looking for women who can love deeply, wholly, and truly, with their entire hearts. For a woman who can give him affection and support when he’s feeling down, who can go out of her way to brighten his day and make him smile, who can go the extra mile to make him feel loved.
When a man finds a woman like that, he will be inspired to do all that and more to see her smile – and to give her love.
Those are the 8 biggest qualities that men are looking for in the women they love. Chances are, a man is going to want to see at least 5 or 6 of those qualities in his soul mate.